First-date red flags and green flags

What this quiz helps you practice

Reading first-date behavior like a dating-show viewer: what signals respect, consistency, and emotional safety—and what hints at trouble.

Each question gives you 4 options and there’s no timer, so you can think through context instead of rushing to a snap judgment.

Difficulty and question settings

Difficulty is mixed on purpose: some items are obvious “hard no” moments, while others sit in the gray area where intent and patterns matter.

Choose your question count and difficulty before you start to tailor the session—quick warm-up, full deep-dive, or anything in between.

Common pitfalls to avoid

• Treating one awkward moment as a dealbreaker without looking for a pattern
• Ignoring boundaries because the date is charming or funny
• Confusing confidence with arrogance or control
• Overlooking how they talk about exes, friends, or service staff
• Assuming “green flag” means perfect instead of simply healthy

How to score better

Focus on consistency, accountability, and how they handle small disagreements. When you’re unsure, choose the option that best reflects long-term behavior rather than one-off impressions.