How many questions are in this quiz?

This quiz has 130 questions covering first-date boundaries, safety, and red flags.

What is the format of the quiz?

Each question has 4 options and there is no timer, so you can answer at your own pace.

Is the difficulty suitable for beginners?

Yes. The difficulty is mixed, combining obvious red flags with more subtle, realistic scenarios.

Can I choose the number of questions and difficulty?

Yes. You can select your preferred question count and difficulty before you start.

What kinds of red flags does it focus on?

It covers boundary violations, controlling behavior, manipulation, disrespect, and safety-related warning signs.

Online Quiz: First-date red flags

About this quiz

What you’ll practice

From pushy “jokes” to invasive questions, you’ll train your instincts to notice boundary-testing and safety risks early. Each question focuses on what’s concerning, what’s merely awkward, and what a healthy response can look like.

The quiz uses 4 options per question and there’s no timer, so you can think through context and choose the best interpretation.

Common pitfalls to avoid

It’s easy to dismiss discomfort as “overthinking,” or to confuse charm with respect. Another frequent mistake is ignoring patterns—one odd comment may be nothing, but repeated pressure, guilt, or control is information.

Difficulty and how to play

Difficulty is mixed on purpose: you’ll get straightforward red flags alongside nuanced situations where intent and impact differ. Choose your preferred question count and difficulty before starting to tailor the session to a quick check-in or a deeper practice run.